1. What do you think will be the first message we receive from an alien world?"The universal comunication network welcomes another homeworld. haha. And all the time you used electromagnetism for comunication."
2. What do you think will be our first message found by an alien world?If anything waits to rechieve any signal it propably wont miss our radio signals send during the second world war, and they are easy to filter and decode and do not leave a good impression to anyone.
The movie "contact" has a nice intro you hear historic radio broadcasts in reverse historical order while aproaching earth.
Many dont like the movie because its quite boring but it fits the topic.
The problem is that the maximum speed of information, light speed, is still pretty damn slow on large scales.
If your screen resolution is 1024 pixel wide or high and displays an image of the milky way galaxy about this scale, diameter 100.000 light-years,
one pixel is ~100 light years wide and our 50 year old radio signal has just traveled past 1 pixel, 50 light years in all directions, filling just that 1 pixel from its center.
And the whole galaxy is tiny on an even larger universal scale.
A signal from "the other end of our galaxy" is like a signal from something as old as dinosaurs and when our 50 year old radio signals have spread all over our galaxy they will be as old as dinosaurs for anyone who rechieves them.
Comunication only makes sense to something close, but the closer the more unlikely it is to exist without noticing.
So if you dont notice something nearby it does not make sense to try to comuniate with something further away.
On large scales you just listen for VERY old information that has traveled WAY past its destination, but a reply just takes way too long to be usefull.
Therefore
Before anyone sends a "hello aliens, you there? asl..." for usefull comunication he has to have rechieved a signal from "not too far", that wasnt really aimed directly at him, or the "hi whazaap" reply will be useless/outdated by the time a reply has come back.There has to be a maximum speed for information or causality and many physical laws would fail, and that speed limit is simply light speed for all that matters.
That speed limit also limits the size of "fast thinking/processing".
A computer processor the size of a classroom could not be faster than ~100mHz because of the light speed limit through the classroom.
A light-echo to the moon and back takes 2,6 seconds.
Intelligence 40 light years away enables anyone to ask a question as a teenager and to get a reply hopefully before diing of old age. (ignoring that you "age" slower the faster you move).
The larger something is the slower it processes information by the comunication speed limit, therefore intelligence is relatively small and automatically isolated from another intellicence.Self replicating space nodes that build up a comunication network feeding on asteroids and moons, a universal internet, called "van neuman nodes", are a workaround for "comunication without replies".
They just spread and store information through space to enable a comunication network , traveling as fast as possible (like 10% to 50% light speed), begging the question why we just did not met any of them yet.
Bet we hit the spam/abuse filter of all alien nodes out there.