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Re: Personal Problem Discussion Thread
« Reply #2070 on: January 12, 2014, 06:21:15 am »
Huh, Kitkat I went through a similar thing in my highschool years and even posted about it here. In retrospect I wish I had held true to the majority advice at the time of letting it go.

There's other girls in the sea Kitkat, and it might be hard because, though I don't know the whole situation, I'd imagine it might be important to you due to your night of stress induced stomach churning. I agree with your friend that she is trying to absolve herself, and that's kind of a red flag.

I say move on, because honestly situations like these don't ever seem to be worth the investment.
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Re: Personal Problem Discussion Thread
« Reply #2071 on: January 12, 2014, 07:20:11 am »
Communication is the hardest thing with people. We can do more with simply asking for what we want, easy to say hard to do.

Rather than making yourself sick, you could just tell her that you are still interested in her and going out. If you want it pursue it. If she has a boyfriend stand back. Stay open to dating other people as you don't want to be in the position of waiting forever for one person to change their mind. Not a good place to be, take my word for it. Maybe if you date others you'll find  someone else who will actually appreciate you for who you are with no games.

Live your life, enjoy and have fun. Don't focus it around one person.


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« Reply #2072 on: January 12, 2014, 01:24:31 pm »
Hey Yuu, I don't know how you're doing now, but I have some stuff to say.

First off, I'm in the middle of being raised by parents and they are *wildy* overprotective. I'm not gonna complain about it, 'cause that won't help, but I'll say this.

You're not worthless, and you should not have been a miscarriage. I don't even know you in person, but I can say that you seem to be a pleasant person, and I like you.

You are not conditioned for failure. No one is conditioned for failure. You have a use and a purpose and you should very definitely be alive. Everyone has a purpose. Don't give up, and if you're feeling down and need some help, maybe you could also pray about it? That helps me sometimes.

We're here for you, man.

Oh, and Kitkat, I was just in an almost identical girl-related situation a month or two ago. I'm a bit younger than you, but I think this still applies:

If something's stressing you out and it's completely up to you if you even want to interact with it, it's just better in the long run to walk away. Maybe, in this case, give up on this girl. There are sweet, completely single girls out there who hate drama as much as you do.

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Re: Personal Problem Discussion Thread
« Reply #2073 on: January 12, 2014, 02:02:02 pm »
Thanks guys. Definitely helps me get through the day.  :)

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« Reply #2074 on: February 19, 2014, 03:37:07 am »
:-(

So throbbing in my right testicle caused me to give it a quick rub and lo and behold there's some sort of nodule or lump on my right ball that wasn't there before.

Doctor appointment for this morning.

Honestly I'm ****ing terrified, like, what the heck? Straight up lump on my nut with aching symptoms? Are you kidding me?

I'll see what the doctor has to say later I guess.

Seriously though, this is some weak sauce.
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Re: Personal Problem Discussion Thread
« Reply #2075 on: February 19, 2014, 06:45:04 am »
Could just be a cyst.

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Re: Personal Problem Discussion Thread
« Reply #2076 on: February 19, 2014, 07:07:45 am »
Best of luck to you erops, that's some scary ****. I hope it's nothing serious.

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« Reply #2077 on: February 19, 2014, 07:29:50 am »
Gah! My appointment is tomorrow morning!

Yeah Brandon i've been googling around and see there are a couple of other options. I'll just less anxious when I have an answer.
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« Reply #2078 on: February 19, 2014, 07:40:17 am »
As a general rule, googling around for what a health issue might be usually ends up with you worrying you have aidscanceritis.
But if it reassures you, good for you :)

Also, good luck tomorrow.

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« Reply #2079 on: February 19, 2014, 07:51:36 am »
I try to take it with a grain of salt. I'm not doom and gloom behind the monitor getting ready to sell my stuff, just shaken. I'm familiar with health issues so it's unfortunately not my first rodeo. Thanks for the support I appreciate it immensely.
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« Reply #2080 on: February 19, 2014, 12:17:21 pm »
Best of luck to your balls!


Despite my choice of phrasing, I mean that in all sincerity.
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Re: Personal Problem Discussion Thread
« Reply #2081 on: February 19, 2014, 04:05:30 pm »
Best of luck to your balls!


Despite my choice of phrasing, I mean that in all sincerity.

What a ball buster.

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Re: Personal Problem Discussion Thread
« Reply #2082 on: February 19, 2014, 04:33:18 pm »
If its something serious then you probably caught it early and it won't be very serious. I'd weigh in with more baseless assumptions and stuff but when I type them I realise they'd probably just make you feel bad rather than putting your mind at ease.
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Re: Personal Problem Discussion Thread
« Reply #2083 on: February 19, 2014, 05:08:59 pm »
We're all hoping for the best.
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« Reply #2084 on: February 19, 2014, 07:17:30 pm »
Thanks, I'm calming down a bit but the unknown is still scary to me. I called my brother (dental school, so pre med lite) to talk to him about it and he mentioned that the pain might be a good since cancer is often painless, it was also nice to just talk to him about it since I don't want to worry my mother until they tell me it's just a spermatocele or some infection that can be cured ez pz. Big morning, haha. I'll be sure to also let you guys know.

Check your nuts monthly. :-\
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