Hey, real problem here!
So, I started dating this girl at my school a few months ago (the fact that I don't remember when sorta illustrates my point) after we went to a couple of dances together. I was sorta peer pressured into it at a football game by her friends. Honestly, I'm not sure why I asked her, other than to make her happy. I have no spark, no real interest in her at all.
I feel trapped. I want out, but I don't want to hurt her, because she's a really good friend and, honestly, I'm afraid breaking up with her would result in a serious loss of face (plus one of her crazy friends threatened to murder me in an only semi-joking way). I go through phases of slight interest and complete disdain for her, which is terribly confusing.
I think I have three options;
1) Tough it out till we split for college. I don't like this at all.
2) Get her to break up with me. Not likely.
3) Tell her that I don't want a relationship at this point, and that I don't feel like we're going anywhere. Basically, honesty.
HALP