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Everything Else / Re: Religion VS Evolution
« on: April 04, 2006, 12:04:42 pm »
I'm not one to play semantics... ::) buuut I would appreciate this thread's name being changed to the more appropriate "Creationism VS Evolution".  Thx.

Everything Else / Re: Steve Goes Gangster
« on: April 04, 2006, 11:33:17 am »
I like the sig., Samog.  :)

Everything Else / Re: Anyone have any advice?...
« on: April 03, 2006, 02:34:14 pm »
so let me get this straight, she dumps you then a few days latter
says she missed you and wants to get back together?

if she can drop you that easily, what are you going to
do if she does it agian when she loses interest?

it sounds to me like whatever guy she tryed to
get with dureing the "break" didnt work out in
her favor so she just wants you back.

but hey i dont know her so i could be wrong...

While c14dude might be a little blunt with what he's saying, he does have a good point.  Enjoy that things are working out how you wanted them to, but be careful.  Find out exactly why she left in the first place, then take it slowly to see if it might happen again.  If she doesn't flip out again, then a big WOOT to you.

Forum Games / Re: Corrupt a wish
« on: March 24, 2006, 01:42:20 pm »
Granted, but now the saying must be changed from "april showers bring may flowers" to "maypril showers bring one, gay summer"

I wish I didn't have to post a wish after crushing someone else's

Everything Else / Re: Anyone have any advice?...
« on: March 24, 2006, 11:55:47 am »
It sounds like you're going to try and take it very rationally and calmly, which I admire.  Be sure to cry a bit - a lot, actually.  Feeling sad is a part of discovering who you are outside of a relationship.  And you're right, if she only loved you for a week, it's much better off.  My ex and I were good friends before we got together, also, so I know where you're coming from.  When friends fall in love it can be the most incredible bond one can imagine.  But if they break it off, it can be a total wreck.  It'll be tough for a while, at least a month or so, but take the responsibility to mend yourself before talking with her again.  Like you said, keep your mind on friends, school, and work to get YOUR routine down.  Then once you've established yourself, talk with her.  It'll be very comforting to know that the friendship that you two had before all of this will still be there and maybe even better off.  She'll respect you for doing this and, even more importantly, you'll respect yourself.

Good luck, man

Everything Else / Re: Anyone have any advice?...
« on: March 24, 2006, 08:49:29 am »
I just recently got out of the same situation that you are in.  My girlfriend of about 10 months ended it with me on the day of our high school graduation (talk about timing).  After that we agreed to stay "friends", but it was very difficult on both of us to not be romantic with each other.  It got very confusing, emotionally draining, and eventually after a few fights we just stopped talking.  It was a very difficult and possibly damaging way to take time from each other, but it was a good thing that it happened.  We should have stopped communicating from the very beginning of the break up. This was about 6 months ago and I'm now just starting to feel as if I'm really getting over her.  I have classes with her and the communication between us is unaffected by hidden meanings and hurt feelings.  Because of that break, it feels as if it's all in the past and I can look back at memories that I had with her and feel both goofy about some of the things I did and very nostalgic about my life.  LadyM is right, these things are all an experience that we all go through, even your ex.  Don't look at her as being your last opportunity for love.  And don't look at this as her last opportunity either.  You both weren't the best "fit" for each other at this moment but that doesnt' mean that nothing else will fit either.  You're both young and both changing, and the best thing for you to do is to learn to accept that your love doesn't ever end with a relationship.  People will come in and out of your life, things will constantly change, but what can be constant is your love for yourself and others. 

What helped me get through some things was definitely taking time away from her (including any communicating online, phone, etc.), spending time with close friends that I might have neglected while I was with her, and reading a lot of various books and articles over the subject (much like you're doing now).  The reason this thing hurts is because you've associated yourself with this girl and now that she's gone, you're completely confused about how to define yourself.  Think about what you would have been doing had you not been in a relationship all this time and DO THOSE THINGS.  Completely change your routines for a while and then you'll be able to get accustomed to that, meanwhile growing farther away from your old routine and any hurt that's associated with it.

For any reading, I suggest looking at some modern books on Bhuddism.  The great thing about these books is that even if you're not a "spiritual person", the teachings are certainly practical and appliable to what you're going through. 

Forum Games / Re: Corrupt a wish
« on: March 23, 2006, 10:22:32 pm »

Forum Games / Re: The Infinity Game
« on: March 23, 2006, 10:21:22 pm »
5904, 5905, 5906, 5907, 5908, 5909, 5910

Forum Games / Re: Corrupt a wish
« on: March 23, 2006, 10:19:59 pm »
granted, and you made him happy - GOOD GOING

I wish this game would end

Everything Else / Re: Anyone have any advice?...
« on: March 23, 2006, 10:18:01 pm »
I still have strong feelings for her, and we are goin to try and remain friends

I'm going to be direct with you because you asked for some advice - at this point, with you feeling like you do, you two can't be friends.  15 months is a long time, by the way; did you ever see any indication that she might be considering calling things off with you?

Forum Games / Re: Corrupt a wish
« on: March 23, 2006, 10:09:59 pm »
granted, but even satan doesn't like you and sends you back to earth, destined to keep on wishin'

I wish some new spore info would come out, damnit

Spore: General / Re: This whole GDC thing
« on: March 23, 2006, 10:03:49 pm »
congrats, hydro

man, the color change is pretty significant from one picture to the other, no?

Spore: General / Re: More Images and Comments
« on: March 23, 2006, 09:47:15 pm »
Hey, Will cleans up nicely.

Spore: General / Re: GDC 2006 Spore Powerpoints Comments
« on: March 23, 2006, 09:38:07 pm »
It makes sense for maxis to release the editors before hand - gets the community extremely hyped and involved, committed to the game because they're creating before it even comes out, brings more potential buyers into the game, and really gives the game a chance to develop before it even starts (kind of cheating, if you think about it).

Spore: General / This whole GDC thing
« on: March 23, 2006, 08:47:07 pm »
Waiting for new spore info is like waiting for christmas morning as a little kid;  feels good to live some nostalgia past adolescence

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