My girlfriend is actually a hardcore gaming girl. She also happens to be a huge sims 2 fan, while simultaniously spending lots of time in wows battlegrounds and arenas.
Being an artist IRL she is cautiously optimistic about spore, even though she often picks on me for my level of devotion to the game

She wants to create her own stuff though.
I think spore has a chance to hit both the casual and hardcore markets pretty hard. There are just different things that the game has that appeal to different markets. And you cant please everyone. Most likely the comment about spore for those who cant game comes from the kind of gamer that thirsts for direct competition like the article suggests. Obviously spore may not be a perfect fit for them, but it will still capture more than enough of the hardcore market to make it viable.
I personally cant wait to see the kinds of games and events that come out of spore by the hardcore players. But this time around the sceptor is in the hands of the many, meaning that spore sort of evens the odds. Spore is rewarding players not just by their skill as a player but their creativity and imagination as a creatures creator. This closes the gap between the two ends of the dichotomy by allowing you as the player to focus your game on whichever elements you are best at.
Many who blast spore now also dont really understand what the game is about, the minds of the masses have not yet been expanded to understand the kind of changes that spore is trying to bring to the gaming market. Give it a little while, and well see more people jump aboard the bandwagon one way or another. Some might stick with the game, some might not, but I can guarantee you that spore is going to be one of the kind of games that everyone eventually has to try. =)
And by the way, dont be so quick to write off female gamers' skills. Because I can guarantee you that I can name two or three that would wipe the floor with half of the egotistical males who play halo 3. Oh the horrors and swearing that is often heard echoing through my household from butthurt Xbox live players...